R U Fit 4 Love?

No?.. Then perhaps you might like to develop a little more
'Personal Magnetism'!

Many people are searching for their 'ideal' partner - whether it be for mutual fun, or a deeper, more meaningful relationship.
Most of us have experienced relationships that have ended badly, leaving us feeling let us say, less than confident and less than attractive. - A painful break-up can really knock your confidence and belief in yourself, can't it?
It can sometimes send us into 'victim mode', where we may all too easily turn to comfort eating and drinking or anti-depressants. This can result in the putting on of unwanted fat, ill health or dependency, which in turn, will almost certainly amplify any existing feelings of low self-esteem and can produce a downward spiral - Anyway, that's enough of that depressing stuff!

So how might we regain that confidence in ourselves and in our power to attract a partner?..
The answer could lie in learning the art of 'Personal Magnetism'.

People with 'Personal Magnetism' exude a kind of warmth and confidence that attracts others to them effortlessly. You can't quite put your finger on how they do it, they just seem to have an attractive, positive energy about them - a kind of 'inner glow' that makes everyone want to be around them... and there's the answer - it's an ENERGY thing!

Have you ever noticed how energised and ‘uplifted’ you feel when you have been in the company of a vibrant, positive individual – and how ‘drained’ of energy you feel after being with someone who constantly complains and focuses on the negative? This is because you are literally picking up on their energy 'vibe' and it is affecting your own.

Feelings of low self-esteem can also lower your energy 'vibe' - And in fact, what you think and how you feel about yourself makes all the difference to the way others perceive you.
A lack of self-confidence can lead to: feelings of lethargy / lack of motivation or focus in life, as well as a greatly diminished interest in personal health and general well being….Then one day, you may wake up and think to yourself “Where did all my vitality go? – What has happened to all the fun that I used to have? – What happened to my body? - Why am I surrounded by negative people, stressful situations, bad relationships..?”

I’ll tell you why…Because… ‘LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE!’
According to certain principals in physics and metaphysics, ‘energy’ will always attract, to itself, ‘like’ energy – in other words, similar energy vibrations are literally ‘magnetised’ toward each other. That is why positive people tend to attract other positive people (and situations), into their lives and visa versa with negative people.
Everything in the Universe is energy and vibrates at a certain frequency - This includes our thoughts, emotions, words and actions (even the colour of your clothes sends out a unique frequency!)
All energy moves in a circular fashion, therefore, the kind of energy vibration you send out - will come back to you. - This is where the saying 'What goes around comes around' stems from.
We are all part of one Universal Energy Field, (If you don't believe me, just try stepping out of it!), therefore we are all affected by each other's vibration to a greater or lesser extent... There is no separation!

Dr. N. Milanovich and Dr. S. Mc.Cune in their book 'The Light Shall Set You Free' state:

"Our thoughts are energy. In addition to our thoughts, everything we feel, say and do constitutes a form of energy. Each of us is a powerful energy emitter in every waking or sleeping moment."

"What we think, feel, say and do in each moment sends out a resonance field in the Universe that comes back to us to create our realities. It is our consciousness that drives this energy, and we program our consciousness by the messages we send out to one and other. But remember, energy is energy." (It does not discriminate.) "It will follow the course of least resistance. Therefore, when we focus on the results that we want, our energies will support us in obtaining those results. This is true. It is a metaphysical law."

So how do we achieve 'Personal Magnetism'?..

The power of attraction starts in the mind!
The mind is a very powerful tool! Visualisation techniques have been widely and successfully used as a way of focusing ‘mind energy’ to achieve specific outcomes by many of the world's top achievers in all fields of life. ‘Uri Geller’ is one such advocate of ‘visualisation’ and ‘mind power’.
Visualising in great detail what you’d like to look like or what you’d like to attract into your life, can greatly increase your chances of success. - If you then add to the visualisation, feelings of deep EMOTION, DESIRE & WILL, you then have a very 'potent cocktail' of 'magnetic energy' ready to deploy!

Now, to become attractive on the outside, you first have to become attractive on the inside!
If I have learned anything in my lifetime, it is that our outer reality always reflects what we think, feel and believe inside.
For instance...
There may be times in your life when you feel confident about who you are and the way you look. These thoughts and feelings of self-worth send out positive energy 'vibrations', which then begin to attract people and situations that faithfully 'mirror' back to you your expectations in life and how you perceive yourself. For instance, these may suddenly materialise in your life in the form of compliments or opportunities. In other words, People around you are likely to start to notice your 'good points' - and then give you 'positive feedback' about them.

Conversely, the times that you feel that you look 'awful', and have no confidence in yourself or your abilities, - the same applies. But instead of compliments and opportunities being presented, you are likely to attract people and situations that will emphasise your 'flaws'.
For example, you may overhear a 'negative' comment relating to you - that quite accurately reflects how you see yourself. You might be repeatedly overlooked for 'that job' you want. - Or you may stop receiving 'favourable' attention from the opposite sex etc...
YOU are the one sending out all these 'messages'! - Others are simply picking up and interpreting your vibration - and so quite literally, this is how they begin to perceive you!

Therefore, if you want to attract the right kind of attention, you must start with positive thoughts - ESPECIALLY thoughts about yourself!

Inner Attractiveness

To develop Inner Attractiveness, one must start by using the power of the mind and visualisation.
Take 'time out' to be alone and think about all your good points that you have been proud of in the past.
Why not have a long luxurious bath and take your mind back to a time in your life when you felt really good about yourself - the fun times. How did you look, how did you feel, what qualities did you seem to possess that others appreciated? - What was it that made you feel so good? Try to take yourself back into the feeling of it and imagine being that person again.. in the NOW!
If you have never felt good about yourself, imagine yourself now possessing those qualities that you have always wanted to have.
As you let your imagination run freely, feel your energy change - Feel the inner glow of self confidence and revel in the excitement of all the people and possibilities that your new found sense of self-esteem will bring into your life... START TO EXUDE THAT ENERGY!

Outer Attractiveness

To enhance Outer Attractiveness, take steps to improve your physical appearance, so that it more accurately reflects your new inner vision of yourself and / or how you would like others to perceive you.
Hone and tone your figure or physique, start eating healthier, more energising foods - commit to being the best you have EVER been - MAKE A PHYSICAL COMEBACK! (I've done it several times in my life - and it always feels great!)
Join a gym or better still ...ha ha!.. - Get yourself a Personal Trainer to maximise your chances of success!.. ;) Treat yourself to some new clothes - a new image. Pamper yourself - really love the new you!

The more you able to love yourself, the more others are able to love you.
The more loving thoughts you consciously send out, the more you will receive!

Express The New You!

To affirm all the inner and outer changes that you have made, it is advantageous (energetically speaking!) to substantiate this by making a bold 'statement' to the world about who you are NOW.
For example, you may like to join a friendship / dating agency, and get to know some new and interesting like-minded people? - There are many online agencies to choose from.

By doing this, you could be opening the doors of opportunity as well giving yourself an ideal chance to express who you are by writing about your qualities, beliefs and desires. - Including clarifying exactly what it is you are searching for in a partner - After all, that special person that you are seeking to attract into your life, might live miles away - but nevertheless, may also have just had the 'urge' to join that particular agency - and could be looking for someone exactly like you!
Alternatively, why not take up a new hobby, something you've always wanted to do but perhaps never had the energy, time or confidence to pursue. Maybe join an amateur dramatic society and express yourself on stage. This could give you further confidence to explore different aspects of your personality.

All of the above are ways to enable you to broaden your social horizons, giving you more opportunity to meet the right partner... After all, this is not likely to happen if you hide yourself away indoors, sat in front of your TV set!

Self-Confidence

I think you will find that by following the above exercises, increased self-confidence will naturally follow as you begin to see the results of your efforts being 'mirrored' back to you - and I don't just mean your reflection in the looking glass!
As you begin act and feel differently, new people are likely to be drawn into your life who will complement the new version of you.
Your perception of life and more importantly, of yourself will have changed forever... and for the better!

An example where I perceived these principles to be at work, was when my son's friend came round for the evening. He told me how he was fed up with shallow, one night stands and really wanted to 'settle down' with someone special - He had been in a long term relationship a couple of years prior, which had ended very badly and since then he had just basically taken to 'sleeping around', as there was never anyone he considered to be 'right' for him.
I suggested that every night, he visualised in as much detail as possible, exactly what his 'ideal' woman would be like - looks, personality, inner qualities etc. and how he could imagine and feel his life changing once she was a part of it. I also asked him to think about all the qualities that HE had to offer HER in the relationship. I told him to conjure up all the feelings of 'being in love' - the joy, the warmth, the excitement - the anticipation!
He trusted me and so he said he would "give it a go."
About 3 weeks later, I received a phone call from a very excited young man, saying that IT HAD WORKED!
He told me he had done exactly what I had suggested, and he had met a girl who was just what he had been looking for - In fact she was EVERYTHING that he had been visualising and 'putting out' for: her looks, her personality, her qualities.. He was 'over the moon' about it - And within a year, they were married - and still are!

Just 'pure coincidence' you might say. However, I have also used this very technique to draw certain partners and opportunities into my life... So all I can say, is it has worked for me!

Go on... Develop Your E.S.P
(Extra Sensual Perception!)

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No?.. Then perhaps you might like to develop a little more 'Personal Magnetism'!

So how might we regain that confidence in ourselves and in our power to attract a partner?.. The answer could lie in learning the art of 'Personal Magnetism'.